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| I cut eight inches of my hair! |
Right before New Year's, Rebecca (Beauty Director)
wrote about her self-esteem issues after getting a short haircut. When I was reading it, I had really long hair. It was all the way down my back and had been since I could remember, but I'd been tossing around the idea of cutting it for a few years.
I've always been seen as a bit of an anomaly. I'm pretty sure when people are trying to describe me to others, they'd say, "You know Brianti. She's the black girl with really long hair." I get stopped in stores by strangers, inquiring if it's real and asking to touch it. There's also the occasional creeper who just runs their fingers through my hair without warning. When I went to newspaper camp in high school (take a moment to chuckle at my nerdiness), my nickname was Pocahontas. As the manager of a dance team in college, they called me L.H.D.C., or "Long Hair Don't Care" (it's from a song).
I just kind of got used to things the way they were, but a couple of years ago someone asked me a question I wasn't sure how to answer, "Do you like having long hair?"
I'd never actually thought about it before and I wasn't really sure. For most people it wouldn't be a huge decision, but my family and a lot of my friends have always really loved my long hair. It's been the topic of many conversations and I've been getting warnings not to cut it since I can remember. But it was also a big hassle to have long hair. My hair is thick, so with the length, it's almost impossible to wash it on my own. Finding a hair stylist to relax my hair for less than $100 where I live is a dream. Most importantly, my hair was starting to look unhealthy because I couldn't really manage it on my own.
Most of the responses to my shorter hair have been positive, but some people haven't exactly been supportive. But that will happen with any decision you make and I always respect other people's feelings, even if I don't agree with them. If there's any advice I can give to Feather Girls, it's to do what makes
you happy, as long as you're not hurting anyone.
All of my New Year's resolutions were centered around a central theme--to do what makes me happy this year. I've spent 22 years avoiding things I thought others may not like me to do. But this time, I went to my hair stylist and told her I wanted it cut off--for me.
As soon as I looked at the finished product, I loved my hair. I've felt way more confident the past couple of days with it shorter than I ever did when it was long. That fact alone makes all the comments I'll be getting from relatives about how I shouldn't have cut my hair worth it.
Who knows? I may never grow it back out.